chore: bump PyTorch version in dependencies & CI (#21043)

* bump PyTorch version in dependencies & CI

build(deps): update torchvision requirement in /requirements

Updates the requirements on [torchvision](https://github.com/pytorch/vision) to permit the latest version.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/pytorch/vision/releases)
- [Commits](https://github.com/pytorch/vision/compare/v0.16.0...0.23.0)

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updated-dependencies:
- dependency-name: torchvision
  dependency-version: 0.23.0
  dependency-type: direct:production
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* RunIf(linux_only=True)
* _xfail_gloo_windows
* FixMe
* flaky

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