Add Python 3.13 to CI (#21360)

* add 3.13 and 3.14 tests

* filter numpy warnings

* stick to py313 for now

* wrap in enum.member

* conditionally import enum.member

* not it

* conditional numpy version

* undo

* add igonore for future warning

* drop pin for numpy

* update numpy version

* update numpy version

* update numpy pin

* update

* re-trigger ci

* re-run to run al missing actions

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Co-authored-by: bhimrazy <bhimrajyadav977@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: thomas chaton <thomas@grid.ai>