bump: Torch `2.5` (#20351)

* bump: Torch `2.5.0`

* push docker

* docker

* 2.5.1 and mypy

* update USE_DISTRIBUTED=0 test

* also for pytorch lightning no distributed

* set USE_LIBUV=0 on windows

* try drop pickle warning

* [pre-commit.ci] auto fixes from pre-commit.com hooks

for more information, see https://pre-commit.ci

* disable compiling update_metrics

* bump 2.2.x to bugfix

* disable also log in logger connector (also calls metric)

* more point release bumps

* remove unloved type ignore and print some more on exit

* update checkgroup

* minor versions

* shortened version in build-pl

* pytorch 2.4 is with python 3.11

* 2.1 and 2.3 without patch release

* for 2.4.1: docker with 3.11 test with 3.12

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Co-authored-by: Thomas Viehmann <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: pre-commit-ci[bot] <66853113+pre-commit-ci[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
(cherry picked from commit 61a403a512466d65ebe730b1cc0cf4a909a533f2)