fix: streamed query consume aware signal (#9963)

* chore: move consume aware signal logic to utils

* fix: add consume aware signal to streamedQuery

* test: add a test for not a signal that is not consumed by streamFn

* chore: add changeset

* fix: made queryFn of streamedQuery not consume signal directly (so that only streamFn can consume it)

* fix: made onCancelled get called only once

* fix: memoized getSignal and made sure it is called only once

* fix: no-unnecessary-condition

* chore: size-limit

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Co-authored-by: Dominik Dorfmeister <office@dorfmeister.cc>