chore: improve CI (#4288)

* chore: get rit of rescript

* chore: solid-query doesn't need jscodeshift

* chore: move react dependencies to react packages

* chore: move react dependencies to react packages

* chore: add descriptions

* chore: remove special lint tsconfigs

we want to use the same tsconfigs for linting as for everything else

* chore: make all tests run in parallel with pnpm

* chore: chunk ci pipeline

* chore: move react specific test setup into react packages

* chore: remove jest configs from tsconfig.json

because they live outside of the root dir (src)

* chore: fix weird type errors in solid tests

* chore: fix running the lint task

* chore: run the typecheck task in parallel

* chore: add a clean task

* Revert "chore: run the typecheck task in parallel"

This reverts commit 53573f5b13422bf1d2e8b035740c930645ea1a45.

* chore: no idea why this is errors

* chore: fix codecov upload

* chore: add runInBand

* Revert "chore: add runInBand"

This reverts commit 568e12c41bdba6e4abb7f1b405e57107e529e020.

* chore: make jest tests temporarily exit with 0

so that we can test code-coverage

* chore: only run test jests

* Revert "chore: make jest tests temporarily exit with 0"

This reverts commit ad099006f848b71329a1054b213d918c2b4b2317.

* chore: fix solid-query tests with a custom transform

* chore: use checkout v3

* chore: fix node-version for Test React 17 pipeline

* chore: fix watch mode

we cannot run jest:dev anymore because streaming watch mode to multiple packages is not a thing; you'd need to go into a separate package and watch those tests there