chore: switching to an affected strategy (#5215)

* switiching to an affected strategy

* updating base affected option for ci and ci-v3 workflows

* Update .github/workflows/ci-v3.yml

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* checking github context

* checking pnpm version

* fix?

* does not like main - let's use a sha then

* checking git head

* checking git in general

* fix????

* fix???????? pleeeease

* still in detatched head state

* try checking out the pr head sha?

* checking out pr branch

* checking githubref

* full gh ref

* dumping context again

* try to checkout head ref

* adding repo prop

* git logging

* trying with sha for base

* fixing other jobs

* fixing other jobs again

* reverting root specific projects to run many

* removing special stuff from build test

* testing affected

* reverting change

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