fix: no hydration when new promise comes in (#8383)

* add failing repro test

* update assertinos

* add logg

* ehm - maybe fix?

* rm -only

* make example

* upd

* ad debug logs

* more debugging

* push

* maybe???

* rm log

* revert

* fix: ?

* fix: check for pending status again

otherwise, we risk including promises that happen because of background updates (think persistQueryClient)

* fix: clear serverQueryClient between "requests"

otherwise, we are re-using the cache and the query won't be in "pending" state the second time around

* chore: remove logs

* rethrow next build error

* kick off ci again

* add `shouldRedactError` option

* pluralize

* docs

* chore: more memory

* chore: revert more memory

* don't compare statuses if they don't exist

* ci: apply automated fixes

* lint

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Co-authored-by: Dominik Dorfmeister <office@dorfmeister.cc>
Co-authored-by: autofix-ci[bot] <114827586+autofix-ci[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>