fix($animate): use $timeout to handle the delay within staggering animations

When transition-delay and animation-delay were used to drive the staggering
animation the result was unpredictable at times due to the browser not being
able to register the generated delay styles in time. This caused a hard to
track down bug that didn't have a solid solution when styles were being used.

This fix ensures that stagger delays are handled by the $timeout service.

Closes #7228
Closes #7547
Closes #8297
Closes #8547

BREAKING CHANGE

If any stagger code consisted of having BOTH transition staggers and delay staggers
together then that will not work the same way. Angular will now instead choose
the highest stagger delay value and set the timeout to wait for that before
applying the active CSS class.