fix($compile): support merging special attribute names in `replace` directives

When compiling a `replace` directive, the compiler merges the attributes from
the replaced element onto the template element.

Unfortunately, `setAttribute` and other related DOM methods do not allow certain
attribute names - in particular Angular 2 style names such as `(click)` and `[value]`.

This is relevant when using ngForward with Angular Material, since the `mgButton`
directive uses `replace` and in the former you often use `(click)`.

This fixes the problem but for those special attributes the speed is considerably
slow.

Closes #13317
Closes #13318