feat($route): ability to cancel $routeChangeStart event

Calling `preventDefault()` on a `$routeChangeStart` event will
prevent the route change and also call `preventDefault` on the `$locationChangeStart` event, which prevents the location change as well.

BREAKING CHANGE:

Order of events has changed.
Previously: `$locationChangeStart` -> `$locationChangeSuccess`
  -> `$routeChangeStart` -> `$routeChangeSuccess`

Now: `$locationChangeStart` -> `$routeChangeStart`
  -> `$locationChangeSuccess` ->  -> `$routeChangeSuccess`

Fixes #5581
Closes #5714
Closes #9502