make curl error on non success status codes

By default something like a 404 will not make curl exit with an error
code. This is problematic for obvious reasons and instead of the file
you want you may now have some 404 html text instead.

I noticed this in #28003 which well just build fine installers except
the binary downloaded by the installer Makefile simply did not exist.

So to address that add --fail to most curl commands.

Signed-off-by: Paul Holzinger <[email protected]>