feat(aiocqhttp): unify json card message parsing with standard field extraction

Unify JSON card message parsing across mini-program, music, and article/video
types. Extract app, preview, title, and url fields using the standard QQ JSON
card structure (meta.detail_1 / music / news) instead of app-name hardcoding.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>