[Operator Mechanism] Support replacing input ptrs of cuda graph (#78467)

* support replace input ptrs of cuda graph

* support deep gemm

* resolve ci build error

* fix ci build

* fix ci

* fix ci

* delete chinese

* add test

* update

* update

* suport cuda>12.4

* update

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