[CK_BUILDER] Integrate reference conv with testing (#3511)

* ck-builder: explicitly delete forward declarations

Before, these functions were seen as a forward declaration for an existing function.
If no actual implementation overload could be found, these would be selected and
a linker error or warning would be generated. By marking these functions as explicitly
deleted, they incorrect invocations are generated as compile error instead.

* ck-builder: ckt::run plumbing for reference conv

This implements the ckt::run plumbing for the reference convolution
implementation and sets up the first complete end-to-end test.

* ck-builder: make validation system check for all-zeros

When both the actual and reference output are both all zero bits,
there is probably something wrong in the test framework.

* ck-builder: proper implementation+tests for TensorDescriptor::is_packed

* ck-builder: fix typos