Create a pybind preset (#10932)

### Summary

In this diff we create a `pybind` preset that is copied with
configurations from
[setup.py](https://github.com/pytorch/executorch/blob/7175ca420dc5a173f8635da976457bf6f17bbbc1/setup.py).
In upcoming diffs, we will completely gut setup.py and point directly to
this preset.

### Test plan

```
$ cmake --list-presets
Available configure presets:

  "macos-arm64"  - Build everything buildable on macOS arm64
  "pybind" - Build pybindings exported in the wheel
```
```
$ cmake --preset pybind && cmake --build cmake-out --parallel
```

cc @larryliu0820