update portable (#3927)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/executorch/pull/3927

1. Create `all_deps` targets for executorch/kernels/portable/cpu/util and  executorch/kernels/portable/cpu/patterns. These dependencies are used by the portable op source files

2. Create genrules in executorch/kernels/portable/cpu to copy portable source and header files

Reviewed By: larryliu0820

Differential Revision: D58393724

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