Add priliminary support for lifted graphs (#199)

Summary:
This adds support to delegate graph exported with `enable_aot=True && _unlift=False`. This is going to be the canonical config.

Main changes involve passing around ExportedProgram to look up parameters like weights instead of just doing get_attr on the graph_module.

Support for unlifted graphs still exists, until we remove `_unlift` knob.

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/executorch/pull/199

Reviewed By: mcr229

Differential Revision: D48710125

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