Fix wheel build and smoke test (#4429)

Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/executorch/pull/4429

Test Plan:
1. Label `ciflow/binaries` to build wheel
2. CI and OSS CI. This makes sure that smoke test can pass, and a portable model can export and run E2E. Python 3.9 is not supported for now.
3. Run these helps validate unittest failure for quantized ops

```
pip uninstall executorch -y
rm dist/*.whl
source build/packaging/env_var_script_m1.sh # or Linux
python setup.py bdist_wheel
pip install dist/*.whl
```

Then in Python, try
```
from executorch.extension.pybindings import portable_lib
from executorch.exir.dialects._ops import ops
import executorch.kernels.quantized
ops.edge.quantized_decomposed.add.default.to_out_variant().name()
```

Reviewed By: larryliu0820

Differential Revision: D60694247

Pulled By: kirklandsign

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