Move EXECUTORCH_ENABLE_PROGRAM_VERIFICATION to default preset (#10800)

### Summary
TSIA

### Test plan

CI +

```
$ cmake --preset macos-arm64 && cmake --build cmake-out --parallel
$ cmake -DEXECUTORCH_ENABLE_PROGRAM_VERIFICATION=OFF --preset macos-arm64 && cmake --build cmake-out --parallel
$ cmake -DEXECUTORCH_ENABLE_PROGRAM_VERIFICATION=ON --preset macos-arm64 && cmake --build cmake-out --parallel
``` 

cc @larryliu0820