fix(autolink): use published codegen version in scaffold (#2628)

## Summary

- Align `create-lynx-extension` prompts with the `create-rspeedy` flow
using `create-rstack` controls.
- Support all-in-one extension scaffolds with native module, element,
and service selections.
- Replace scaffolded `@lynx-js/autolink-codegen` workspace placeholders
from published package metadata instead of hard-coding `^0.0.0`.
- Add tests, documentation, authoring instructions, and a changeset.

## Validation

- `pnpm dprint check .changeset/create-extension-dependency-version.md
.github/autolink-extension.instructions.md
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/README.md
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/package.json
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/template-common/package.json
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/src/cli.ts
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/src/index.ts
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/test/cli.test.ts
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/test/create.test.ts pnpm-lock.yaml`
- `pnpm --filter create-lynx-extension test`
- `pnpm --filter create-lynx-extension build`
- `pnpm exec tsc --build
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/tsconfig.json --pretty false`
- `pnpm eslint packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/src/cli.ts
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/src/index.ts
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/test/cli.test.ts
packages/lynx/create-lynx-extension/test/create.test.ts`
- `git diff --check`

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

* **New Features**
* Enhanced interactive prompts with improved UI for selecting extension
types (Native Module, Element, Service).
  * Added `--type` as shorthand alias for `--types` option.
* Added `--types all` to generate all extension types in a single
package.
* Improved success messages with next steps and automatic package
manager detection.

* **Documentation**
* Updated CLI documentation with clearer interactive workflow
descriptions and expanded examples.

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