Proper tree-sitter 0.25 support (#258)

* chore: track submodule release branch

* ci(dependabot): enable dependency updates

* chore: add editorconfig

* chore: remove npmignore

* ci: update & improve workflows

- Update actions & Node.js and use arm runners
- Enable trusted publishing and attestations

* build: improve cflags

* feat: implement SyntaxNode.toJSON

* fix: improve type declarations

* refactor: generate node subclasses without eval

* build: update dependencies

* feat: implement progress callback parameters

and deprecate the timeouts