refactor: consolidate kind-* Makefile targets into pattern rules (#2792)

Replace standalone kind-cluster, kind-load, kind-deploy,
kind-deploy-experimental, kind-clean, lint-deployed-resources, wait,
and run-internal targets with pattern-rule counterparts (kind-cluster-%,
kind-load-%, kind-deploy-%, etc.) where the stem is the full cluster
name.

Standalone targets are redeclared as thin shortcuts delegating to
pattern rules with $(KIND_CLUSTER_NAME) as the stem. This eliminates
recipe drift between the two sets of targets.

Unify E2E_SOURCE_MANIFEST/E2E_RELEASE_MANIFEST into SOURCE_MANIFEST/
MANIFEST so the same kind-deploy-% recipe serves both dev and e2e
workflows.

Co-authored-by: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>