[Fiber] Warn for Conditional Use of use() Based on Cache (#37104)

This is a cherry-pick of https://github.com/react/react/pull/34030, with
a feature flag gating and a test coverage.

The flag is disabled by default and dynamic for FB builds to understand
first how noisy this warning can be.

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See https://github.com/react/react/pull/34030 for more context on the
change.