Use the same method to get url in all spring filters (#5656)

* use the same method to get url in all spring filters

* remove unnecessary system out message in DatabaseUtils

* spotless

* extract target url to match against tracePropagationTargets

* inject headers if url cannot be extracted to be in line with other integrations

* Format code

* verify host matches requestingHost before returning authentication

* format

* remove applyToSpan to not introduce unexpected behaviour in a minor release

* Changelog

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Co-authored-by: Roman Zavarnitsyn <rom4ek93@gmail.com>