Add DiskANN index for vec0 virtual table

Add DiskANN graph-based index: builds a Vamana graph with configurable R
(max degree) and L (search list size, separate for insert/query), supports
int8 quantization with rescore, lazy reverse-edge replacement, pre-quantized
query optimization, and insert buffer reuse. Includes shadow table management,
delete support, KNN integration, compile flag (SQLITE_VEC_ENABLE_DISKANN),
release-demo workflow, fuzz targets, and tests. Fixes rescore int8
quantization bug.