chore(deps): Bump lapin from 2.5.3 to 4.3.0 (#23316)

* chore(deps): Bump lapin from 2.5.3 to 3.0.0

Bumps [lapin](https://github.com/amqp-rs/lapin) from 2.5.3 to 3.0.0.
- [Changelog](https://github.com/amqp-rs/lapin/blob/main/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](https://github.com/amqp-rs/lapin/compare/lapin-2.5.3...lapin-3.0.0)

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updated-dependencies:
- dependency-name: lapin
  dependency-version: 3.0.0
  dependency-type: direct:production
  update-type: version-update:semver-major
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* Fix OwnedIdentity type change

* cargo vdev build licenses

* Bump lapin to 4.3.0

3.1.0 default-runtime conflicts with heim. 4.x uses tokio

* Make tests and code work with new version

* Update licenses

* Remove clone comment

* Fix clippy

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