Animated: Fix `onUserDrivenAnimationEnded` w/ Insertion Effects (#48678)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/48678

While diagnosing a recent issue in which `AnimatedValue` instances were not being correctly updated as expected, the insertion effects feature flag was identified as a root cause.

Upon further investigation, it appears that this is because the `onUserDrivenAnimationEnded` listener was not implemented the same way in the two feature flag states:

- When `useInsertionEffectsForAnimations` is disabled, `useAnimatedProps` listens to `onUserDrivenAnimationEnded` in a passive effect, after all nodes have been attached.
- When `useInsertionEffectsForAnimations` is enabled, `useAnimatedProps` listens to `onUserDrivenAnimationEnded` in an insertion effect when attaching nodes.

The bugs occurs because `useAnimatedProps` checks whether native driver is employed to decide whether to listen to `onUserDrivenAnimationEnded`. However, we do not know whether native driver will be employed during the insertion effect. (Actually, we do not necessarily know that in a passive effect, either... but that is a separate matter.)

This fixes the bug when that occurs when `useInsertionEffectsForAnimations` is enabled, by moving the listening logic of `onUserDrivenAnimationEnded` into a passive effect. This is the same way that it is implemented when `useInsertionEffectsForAnimations` is disabled.

Changelog:
[Internal]

Reviewed By: javache, sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D68171721

fbshipit-source-id: 50b23348fd4641580581cacebc920959651f96a7