bump react-refresh to latest (#39486)

Summary:
- Companion PR to https://github.com/facebook/metro/pull/1085
- The Fast Refresh changes appear to be required for using static rendering and React DOM. In frameworks like Expo Router which support both native and web, this causes users to not be able to use Fast Refresh on web.

## Changelog:

[GENERAL] [CHANGED] - Upgrade React Refresh package from 0.4.0 to 0.14.0

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/39486

Test Plan:
1. In a React Native project's `package.json`:
```json
 "resolutions": {
    "react-refresh": "~0.14.0"
  },
```
2. Start the server with a clear Metro cache.
3. Changes should update while preserving React state.

Reviewed By: huntie

Differential Revision: D49348078

Pulled By: robhogan

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