Defer to responder system to terminate on scroll (#54007)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/54007

## Changelog:

[Android] [Changed] - Defer to responder system to terminate on scroll

when FeatureFlag responderTerminateOnScrollAndroid is turned on

on ios, we don't dispatch TouchCancel at scroll to terminate scrollview's children, instead, responder system handles responder termination when it receives onScroll event

Currently, TouchCancel native event at scroll will stop any ongoing touch events dispatched from native, and will unexpectedly terminate responder even if responder has transferred from child of scrollView to parent view, because of race condition. Fixing this will require revisiting a large part of the native touch system on android.

Reviewed By: sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D83584281

fbshipit-source-id: 10b3c98c30037b50f1705e11aa9ca016a6c3d974