Fix RefreshControl recycling (#52584)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/52584

The method `_initializeUIRefreshControl` creates a new instance of `UIRefreshControl` which has the default values for things like tint color.
However the props that we are keeping in the component are the `_props` before recycling. The actual state of the newly created UIRefreshControl is out of sync w.r.t the props the component thinks to have.

By introducing a `_recycled` state variable, we can force the first `updateProp` call to apply all the props to the newly created component.

## Changelog:
[iOS][Fixed] - Make sure that the recycled refresh control have the right props setup.

Reviewed By: sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D78278207

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