Move getCommandOptions and getOptions to parsers commons (#36413)

Summary:
> [Codegen 92] The getCommandOptions function in parsers/typescript/components/options.js and parsers/flow/components/options.js is the same. move it in parser-commons and use it in the original files. If the file two options.js files are empty, delete them.

> [Codegen 93] The getOptions function in parsers/typescript/components/options.js and parsers/flow/components/options.js is the same. move it in parser-commons and use it in the original files. If the file two options.js files are empty, delete them.

Part of Issue https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/34872

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[Internal][Changed] - Move getCommandOptions and getOptions to parsers commons from parsers components options

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/36413

Test Plan: `yarn jest react-native-codegen`

Reviewed By: rshest

Differential Revision: D43957023

Pulled By: cipolleschi

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