use weak_ptr of NativeAnimatedNodesManager in AnimatedModule (#54564)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/54564

## Changelog:

[General] [Internal] - use weak_ptr of NativeAnimatedNodesManager in AnimatedModule

- so NativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider is the only owner of NodesManager
- Also referencing a nodesManager weak_ptr in the scheduleOnUI call, to prevent AnimatedModule to use a partially destroyed NodesManager

Reviewed By: sanjay-io

Differential Revision: D87229271

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