[ios][precompile] aligned symbol folders with RNdeps

After fixing an isssue with ReactnativeDependencies and how it built symbols (#53353) this commit will align the output of the Symbols folder for the two frameworks.

Previously we had an output in the Symbols folder that looked like this (from a local build on my machine)

- catalyst
- iphone
- iphonesimulator

After this we now have the more correct arcitecture names on these folders:

- ios-arm64
- ios-arm64_x86_64-simulator
- ios-arm64_x86_64-maccatalyst

This is in line with how the ReactNativeDependencies Symbol folder is set up.