fix: jvm 11 error message from ReactPlugin.kt and react.gradle (#33048)

Summary:
you can see discussion here: https://github.com/reactwg/react-native-releases/discussions/13#discussioncomment-2069527
we were getting this error message when we build Gradle with other than 11 JVM
```
> Task :react-native-gradle-plugin:compileJava FAILED
2 actionable tasks: 2 executed

FAILURE: Build failed with an exception.

* What went wrong:
Execution failed for task ':react-native-gradle-plugin:compileJava'.
> invalid source release: 11
```
this solution is suggested by mikehardy

after this PR, now the error is like this
```
**************************************************************************************************************

ERROR: requires JDK11 or higher.
Incompatible major version detected: '8'

**************************************************************************************************************
```

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[Android] [Fixed] - jvm 11 error message

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/33048

Test Plan: install other than 11 java version and just run `./scripts/test-manual-e2e.sh` this command at the root of RN repo than this error will appair `invalid source release: 11`

Reviewed By: ShikaSD

Differential Revision: D34110990

Pulled By: cortinico

fbshipit-source-id: c142a363c7cec0db65d5ab9da858fd25866c7c49