Replace metro-memory-fs dependency in tests with OSS memfs (#52572)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/52572

We'd like to stop supporting `metro-memory-fs` - there are better alternatives out there.

This replaces the one usage of `metro-memory-fs` in `react-native` with `memfs`, and swaps the dependency.

Changelog: [Internal]

Reviewed By: vzaidman

Differential Revision: D78161921

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