Extract binaryCompatibilityValidator into gradle.properties file (#41811)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/41811

In this diff I'm extracting binaryCompatibilityValidator configuration into gradle.properties file. The goal is to reuse these properties from BUCK

changelog:[Internal] internal

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D51402033

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