remove jcenter (#31609)

Summary:
jcenter is read-only now, and newer versions of dependencies will be published to either MavenCentral or Jitpack. This PR removes jcenter to avoid future issues, then uses MavenCentral and Jitpack as replacement. Current flipper depends on Stetho version that is not available on MavenCentral, so had to exclude and bump the version.

Both Gradle and Buck successfully download all the dependencies.

## Changelog

[Android] [Changed] - Remove jcenter

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/31609

Test Plan: rn-tester builds and runs as expected.

Reviewed By: mdvacca

Differential Revision: D28802444

Pulled By: ShikaSD

fbshipit-source-id: 043ef079d0cda77a1f8dd732678452ed712741a4