Gradle to 9.0 (#53281)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/53281

This is still a of bumping Gradle to the latest Major (9.0)
Full list of changes is here: https://gradle.org/whats-new/gradle-9/

I don't expect any breaking changes for React Native users.

Changelog:
[Android] [Breaking] - **deps:** Gradle to 9.0

Reviewed By: cipolleschi

Differential Revision: D79445941

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