Align github/* action versions on major (#45542)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/45542

As we do have several version numbers for external actions all across the codebase,
here I'm aligning all of them to just use the majors.

I'm doing it only for GitHub first party actions as we trust them,
so minor/patch changes can safely be pulled in without code changes.

Changelog:
[Internal] [Changed] - Align github/* action versions on major

Reviewed By: cipolleschi, blakef

Differential Revision: D59959978

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