Implement solution for ShadowTree commmit exhaustion using recursive locks (behind a flag) (#52795)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/52795

Changelog: [internal]

This is another attempt to fix https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/51870, inspired by https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/52314 but gated behind a feature flag until we've tested it carefully.

Reviewed By: sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D78817100

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