Port Create Release fixes from Stable to main (#45063)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/45063

While doing the release of 0.75, we have to fix the Create Release action a few times to get it right.
This change contains the fixes from
* https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/e36b46f0c970dc3f1f5b5058a8d10834acdb2667
* https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/1b891357b2f1995f2344cc991be423ca66fa6770
* https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/56e1c8bfdd57600e79c0b17de1d2fd933d20b8f9
* https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/03591318fbabdc0c06808316f471cc361b53c57f
* https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/528097709aeef434b0d85565bfd89a4a9ff5644e
* https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/f4b1dd1fa11374cae8a696833ad9ded0767cba8f

## Changelog
[Internal] - Backport changes to Create Release github action

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D58782391

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