Add --experimental-debugger-frontend flag, restore 0.72 flow as base (#40766)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/40766

This changeset allows users to opt into the new debugger frontend experience by passing `--experimental-debugger` to `react-native start`. **We are defaulting this option to `true`** for now, but will continue to evaluate this feature before 0.73 ships. It restores Flipper (via `flipper://`) as the default handling for `/open-debugger` (matching 0.72 behaviour) when this flag is not enabled.

Detailed changes:

- Replaces `enableCustomDebuggerFrontend` experiment in `dev-middleware` with `enableNewDebugger`. The latter now hard-swaps between the Flipper and new launch flows.
    - Removes now-unused switching of `devtoolsFrontendUrl`.
- Implements `deprecated_openFlipperMiddleware` (matching previous RN CLI implementation).
- Disables "`j` to debug" key handler by default.
- Marks "`j` to debug" and `/open-debugger` console logs as experimental.

Changelog:
[Changed][General] Gate new debugger frontend behind `--experimental-debugger` flag, restore Flipper as base launch flow

Reviewed By: motiz88

Differential Revision: D50084590

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