Improve setting props of the Interop Layer (#41942)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/41942

Previously, every time a component was updated, we were passing all the props to the interoperated component.
With this change, we are going to only pass the props that are changed.

As a safety feature, if the new codepath is not able to detect the type of the prop properly, it will fall back to the previous behavior.

## Changelog:
[Internal] - Only pass props to the interoperated component when they changes

Reviewed By: sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D51755764

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