Gradle to 8.13 (#49689)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/49689

X-link: https://github.com/facebook/yoga/pull/1790

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/49703

I'm bumping Gradle to the latest minor.
https://docs.gradle.org/8.13/release-notes.html

I'm also changing the distribution from `all` to `bin` as
this reduces the download time of the distribution.

Changelog:
[Android] [Changed] - Gradle to 8.13

Reviewed By: NickGerleman

Differential Revision: D70239710

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