Add null check for ViewState in SurfaceMountingManager::updateProps (#56147)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/56147

I saw that in D95793355 a null check was added for the view state in updateLayout. A similar issue can happen (and has been happening with Reanimated) with the updateProps method, so this diff makes it consistent with the other codepaths.

## Changelog:
[General] [Changed] - use getNullableViewState in SurfaceMountingManager::updateProps and log a soft exception instead

Reviewed By: javache

Differential Revision: D97087668

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