Implement mechanism to prevent ShadowTree commit exhaustion (#52645)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/52645

Changelog: [internal]

This add a new feature flag to test a fix for https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/51870

Reviewed By: cortinico, sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D78418504

fbshipit-source-id: 2792026b6936393d196fd1e3162f8b2c61a38ed6