Port CI improvements from Release branch to main (#45175)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/45175

This change ports the CI improvements we made on stable branch to main.

## Changelog:
[Internal] - Port back to main improvements we made in GHA

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D59053873

fbshipit-source-id: 73eb7e33b9bbdc5d8c3a9294f487ad969b144bf3