Add @types/react as optional peerDependency on packages that use it (#43509)

Summary:
Now that RN is providing TS type information, many of those .d.ts files depend on types from react.  In modern packagemanagers (Ex: pnpm) types/react will not be available to RN since it does not declare it as a dependency.

I also noticed that the types for react-native-popup-menu-android appear to be pointing to the wrong location.

Add types/react as a peerDependency on the packages that have .d.ts files that import from React.
Add types/react to peerDependencyMeta with optional:true to prevent users not using TS from requiring types/react.

## Changelog:

[GENERAL] [ADDED] Added types/react as an optional peerDependency

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/43509

Reviewed By: cortinico

Differential Revision: D55225940

Pulled By: NickGerleman

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