Improve input files for codegen gradle task (#49227)

Summary:
In some projects we have conventions of using .tsx extension even for files without react components, we had issues where codegen wasn't updated properly.

I debugged the files included in a large project and made some improvements:

- Include tsx and jsx files
- exclude nested node_modules
- exclude ts type def files

## Changelog:

[ANDROID] [FIXED] - Improve input files for codegen gradle task

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/49227

Test Plan: Tested in a large app using codegen. I inspected the files that are included in the task inputs and made sure it works with first party and 3rd party modules.

Reviewed By: cipolleschi

Differential Revision: D69254204

Pulled By: cortinico

fbshipit-source-id: 368408e9719e9b5c9839dd873430b86ae4a062c7