RN: Enable `enableAnimatedAllowlist` and `enableAnimatedPropsMemo` (#47502)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/47502

Enables the two following feature flags:

- `enableAnimatedAllowlist`
- `enableAnimatedPropsMemo`

The former enables the use of an experimental optimization to provide `unstable_createAnimatedComponentWithAllowlist` and `useAnimatedProps` an allowlist of props that reduces the set of props iterated over by to find props with `AnimatedNode` (e.g. `Animated.Value`) instance values.

The latter enables improved memoization logic in `Animated` so that its intenal state is invalidated less frequently, reducing the cost of updating `Animated` components.

Changelog:
[General][Changed] - Optimized the performance of updating `Animated` components.

Reviewed By: rozele

Differential Revision: D65645985

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